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Stephen Robert Hale

07/13/1945 - 07/16/2021
Service Date: 07/24/2021
Service Time: 10:30 AM
Service Location: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 3440 S. Signal Butte Road, Mesa, AZ 85212
Visitation Date: 07/23/2021
Visitation Time: 6:00 - 8:00 PM
Visitation Location: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, 3440 S. Signal Butte Road, Mesa, AZ 85212
Interment: City of Mesa Cemetery, 1212 N. Center St., Mesa, Arizona

To livestream the service, go to: https://zoom.us/j/95022534229

Detailed instructions at the bottom of the obituary

Stephen Robert Hale, age 76, passed away on Friday, July 16, 2021, in his hometown of Mesa, AZ, exactly 20 years after the passing of his father Stephen G. on July 16, 2001.

Steve was born in Mesa, AZ on Friday, July 13, 1945, to Stephen G. & Ethel Mae Millett Hale, who were overjoyed to have their first child join their family.  Steve learned the value of hard work from his parents and was an example to his three brothers and two sisters that would soon follow.  Steve graduated from Mesa High School attended BYU, MCC and graduated from ASU in 1972.  On August 10, 1967, Steve married his eternal companion, Melodee Lynn Cluff, daughter of Gwain and Eloise Tyler Cluff, in the Mesa Arizona temple. Their forever family has blossomed with the addition of 9 children, 38 grandchildren, 6 great-grandchildren and counting.

Steve excelled in athletics, competing in track and field at BYU and earning a basketball scholarship for MCC.  He especially loved playing church basketball and softball.  His 6’ 4” frame and broad shoulders made him a powerful force on the court and on the field.  He won many championships including the regional, state and church-wide home run derby.  He loved rooting for ASU and BYU!

Steve was an exceptional missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  He served full-time in several countries in the Central America mission including Guatemala, Costa Rica, and Panama. The highlight of his mission was serving in Panama’s San Blas islands where he was among the first missionaries to set foot. He experienced miracles there and found much success teaching the people the stories of their ancestors contained in the Book of Mormon.  He was beloved among the people where he served, and he continued to share the gospel and his mission experiences throughout his life.  He later served another mission with his wife, Melodee, in the Maricopa County Jails and Phoenix West Prison where they shared the message of hope in Christ to hundreds of inmates; encouraging them to come unto Christ and change for the better.  His lessons were outstanding and the inmates looked forward to hearing him share principles of a successful life.

In 1976, Steve moved his young family to Montevideo, Uruguay for a year where he worked for the operations and maintenance department of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  He was given the assignment to ensure the institution of a new physical facilities program and the training of Stake Physical Facilities Representatives in the countries of Argentina, Chile, Paraguay and Uruguay.  It was a unique opportunity to expose his children to a new culture and the Spanish language he loved. They made many good friends and memories while there.

Steve loved flying and would often take his family just outside the airport fence where they watched the planes take off and land right over their heads.  He obtained his pilot’s license and took his family on many flights in his small Cessna.  He even owned a hot air balloon which was a delight to many.

Steve held many professional titles through the years including ASU football trainer’s assistant, butcher’s assistant, car salesman, drywall construction worker, insurance agent, law office manager, private investigator, and pilot.  But most of his life he spent in real estate–buying, selling, building, developing, and investing.  Steve was a master negotiator!  When he wasn’t at work negotiating land deals, he would peruse the classified ads for cars to buy.  Melodee knew better than to get too attached to her car or home for very long, as they were frequently swapped out for another.  The local dealerships knew and loved him as a frequent patron.  Steve helped countless people purchase their vehicles and homes.

Steve loved authentic Mexican food!  In the 1980’s he discovered a Mexican woman selling homemade tortillas and burros from inside a barber shop. He became a loyal patron and a vocal promoter of Carolina’s Mexican Food, which has grown to multiple storefront locations. Born and raised in Arizona, he developed a taste for the good stuff and passed on that affinity for good Mexican food to his posterity.  Mexican food became a staple at most of his family events and holidays, and the Hales were known for delivering warm tortillas to lucky neighbors around Christmas time.  His command of the Spanish language was excellent, and he loved using it every chance he could.  Steve was also an expert gardener and connoisseur of navel oranges and watermelons.

Steve loved serving the Lord and serving his fellow man.  He joined the Army National Guard and was soon appointed Platoon Leader. He was a volunteer member of the Mesa Police Reserve for several years.  Steve was always quick to volunteer for service projects and taught his children the value of hard work.  Every summer he would wake his children up early to pick corn at the Church farm.  He was a diligent home teacher and fostered many relationships with ward members.  He taught his children, through his example, the importance of volunteering, serving, and loving thy neighbor.  He accepted and magnified every church calling and assignment including Young Men and Scouting leader, Stake Mission President, High Councilor, master Sunday School Teacher/President, Temple Ordinance Worker, and many other callings.  He made many wonderful friends that he served with throughout his life.

Steve’s greatest joy was his family.  His entire life was devoted to fulfilling his duty as father and husband to preside, protect, and provide for his wife and children.  He taught them the principles of the gospel including faith, prayer, repentance, respect, compassion, and hard work.  Side by side with his eternal companion Melodee, Steve was deeply rooted in the gospel with an unshakable testimony of the Lord Jesus Christ, which testimony and example they instilled in their children and grandchildren.  Steve rejoiced in his children’s successes and accomplishments.

Steve is survived by his wife Melodee; children Steve, Matt (Sharon), Cheri (Rick) Smith, Crystal (Ben) Eberhard, Jeff (Amy), John, Robby (Chelsea), Rick (Taryn), and Ryan; his brothers David (Christine), Tom (Nola), Nathan (Kathleen); his sisters Nancy (Scott) Harrington, and Delia (John) Alston; brothers-and-sisters-in-law Ronnie (Polly) Cluff, David (Kathy) Cluff, Patsy (Terry) Allred, and Christi (Dean) Bradshaw; as well as many grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins, and his dear Uncle Richard Millett.  Steve was preceded in death by his parents Stephen & Ethel Mae Millett Hale; parents-in-law Gwain & Eloise Tyler Cluff; and his dear granddaughter Katelyn Rose Hale.

Steve’s family would like to thank his many friends, relatives, business partners, neighbors, local ward and stake, Church leadership, and many others who have touched his and our lives and offered their support and condolences at this time.

A viewing and visitation will be on Friday, July 23rd from 6:00PM-8:00PM at the church on 3440 S Signal Butte Rd, Mesa, AZ.  Funeral services will be at 10:30AM on Saturday, July 24th at the same location.  The link to livestream the service is: https://zoom.us/j/95022534229. Graveside services will precede the funeral at 8:30AM on Saturday at the Mesa Cemetery.

Steve will be dearly missed until that unimaginably joyful day when we are all reunited.

The funeral will also be broadcast via a Zoom webinar.
When: Jul 24, 2021 10:30 AM Arizona
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  • I loved and admired Steve for many years

  • Melodee, I send my love and prayers your way. It was a joy to know Steve and to consider both of you as friends. I understand the experience of the last few years and my heart goes out to you. May the Lord strengthen and bless you and your family at this time.

  • David Fischbeck

    Melodee. We sadly just found out of Steve’s passing. We are so sorry not to have honored him personally, but want to express our sympathy and love to your and your special family. I was integrally involved with Steve in church, church sports and business. I have alwlys admired Steve for his uncompromising values and love of The Lord. Bless you and yours, Love Dave and Maurio

  • Brent & Carolyn Payne

    Dear Melodee and Family,

    Since we learned of Steve’s passing, our thoughts have been flooded with so many wonderful memories of experiences and times we spent together. A great friendship and bond developed as we participated in church basketball games, traveled together on several memorable vacation trips, flew airplanes and hot air balloons, met on the street for early morning exercise sessions, went dancing in Pinetop, looked to Steve to buy cars for us, designed and built Carriage Manor RV Resort, sold real estate, evenings out for Mexican food at the best places in town—and so much more!!!!

    It was a blessing to live next door to the Hale Family in Gilbert. We learned so much from you as we sought your advice and endeavored to follow your example in family life. Our children have fond memories of those times. We love the Hale Family dearly!!!!

    Steve was a man of vision, creativity, insight and positive energy! We love Steve and will treasure our memories of his influence in our lives. We look forward to a grand reunion and many more great experiences in a coming day in another sphere!

    May the Lord comfort and bless you at this time and into the future.

    Much Love,
    Brent & Carolyn Payne

  • Nolan Stradling

    When my family went to Tonga to work for the church, several officials from Salt Lake who traveled in the building operations asked me if I knew Steve, when they found we were both from Mesa. They were so complimentary of Steve that I just assumed he owned all of South America!
    He had a great influence wherever he went. God bless

  • Kathy Malone Tolman

    Melodee, Sending love, hugs and prayers to you and your wonderful family.

  • Bonnie Stanger

    I didn’t know your dad Cheri but I know who you have become as his daughter. So sorry for your loss but grateful we have the gospel of Jesus Christ to know of eternal families. Much love

  • Stephen and Carolei Phelps

    Dear Melodee — Oh… so many happy memories with you and Steve over the years. I knew Steve many years before you did, as Steve and Ethel Mae and their young children were members of the Mesa 10th Ward where I lived with my parents when I was young. And we had the blessing of having common relatives when Steve’s Uncle Richard married my only sister, Denna Phelps back in 1957. So the Phelps’ and the Millett’s shared many happy times together. And then when you and Steve were married, and your mother was my role model and envy of my life with her musical talents, well, that just “sealed the deal.” How grateful we are to have shared life in bits and pieces with you and Steve over the years. We love you. We pray for you and your family and know you will find peace and happiness because the Lord will ever be with you. — Stephen and Carolei

  • John Perkinson

    Great friend and man!!!
    Farewell for but a short while!

  • Audrey Burklund

    I just found out tonight ( Sunday 7/25 ) of Steve’s passing and was so saddened. I’ve known Steve and his family since his teenage years. He was an outstanding missionary. I was happy for him when he married sweet Melodee. At this time my heart goes out to Melodee and their family . May you all find strength from each other and the Lord. You are in my prayers. God bless you all.

  • Cheryl Colleen Forsberg

    What a beautiful tribute that you must have written, Melodee. I send you my loving thoughts as you navigate through this emotional time.

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