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Ralph Ivan Chaffee

03/17/1926 - 01/26/2015
Service Date: 02/03/2015
Service Time: 10:00 AM
Service Location: The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Highland Ward Chapel, 2835 E. Des Moines Street, Mesa, Arizona

Ralph Ivan Chaffee, age 88, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his family, on Monday, January 26, in Mesa, AZ.  He was born March 17, 1926 in Sunrise, Platte County, Wyoming, the third child of Ralph Crawford Chaffee and Clara Hester (Allen) Chaffee.  He was preceded in death by his wife Ruby Ardis (Payton), his sister Helen and brother Dale.  He is survived by sons David Lee (Ann) of Mesa and Bryan Dee (Jan) of Oldsmar, Florida, five grandchildren and 19 great grandchildren.

Ralph was tall (6’2”) and strong, and used his strength to serve all around him.  He could fix and build anything.  He built his family’s first home in Riverton, Wyoming.  He served honorably in the Army Air Corp in WWII on Ascension Island in the Atlantic.  His passion in life, besides his family, was flying.  He learned to fly as a teenager and after the war was employed as a commercial general aviation pilot.  He was an air ambulance pilot, flew for the fish and game department, and for the Forest Service over forest fires.  He always had an airplane story to tell.  He owned a gas station in Riverton, Wyoming and after moving to Kingman, AZ in 1965, he worked for Duval Mines as a heavy equipment operator.  He drove 18 wheelers throughout the US.  In 1977 he and his wife joined the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.  He served in many capacities including three bishoprics and as branch president of the Peach Springs Branch. He and his wife Ruby filled a full-time mission in the Arcadia, California Mission and served for many years as ordinance workers in the St. George and Las Vegas Temples.  In 2002 Ralph and Ruby moved from Kingman to Mesa to live with Dave and Ann and receive help with Ruby’s failing health.  In Mesa, Ralph held callings in the ward and served friends and ward members by driving them to appointments and shopping.  He always had several people he was helping.  His granddaughter remembers him as “a gentle Giant”, and a grandson called him “the strongest man I ever knew.”

Funeral services for Ralph will be held at the LDS chapel on 2835 E. Des Moines in Mesa, on Tuesday, February 3, 2015, at 11 A.M.  A viewing will be held beginning at 10:00 A.M.  He will be interred in the Mesa Cemetery.


  • Ruth Attebery Brown

    David and Brian, my thoughts and prayers are of you at this time. Your folks were always so sweet to my grandmother when you lived on Jefferson St. I remember you dad at all the ballgames. I am sure the reunion is joyful – nothing beats eternity!

  • David and Ann, sorry for the loss of an important family member. But, then, we may be sad, but think of the welcome he received in the Spirit World.

  • I always loved how Dad wanted to know everything about our doggies through the years and most recently our 16 month Grandson Henry. Would have loved to have him meet Henry.

  • David, Ann, Bryan and Jan, I’m so sorry for your lose of your Dad. I won’t be able to attend his service but my thoughts and prayers will be there. I told David that Ivan won my heart when he flew us to Tucson AZ to pick up my 4 lb 13 oz twin boy! Love to you all.

  • Wish I could be there for the Funeral. My thoughts will be there with you. Glad I was able to know Bro. Chaffee. He was a very kind man and loved helping people in need. He is having a beautiful reunion with family and friends.

  • Tom and Maribel Oakes

    Brother and Sister Chaffee we are so saddened by your loss…we know that its hard to see our parents leave us, but what a sweet reunion, he must have had with his sweetheart on the other side. Much love to you and your family.

  • Rick & Cindy Apple

    So sorry for your loss! Ralph is a happy man with His Ruby at long last! Love to all of you!!

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